Our Environment Discussion Covenant
GUIDING WISDOM:
“The right word spoken at the right time is as beautiful as gold apples in a silver bowl.” (Proverbs 25:11)
“Let no harmful word come out of your mouth, but only what is beneficial for building others up according to the need, so that it gives grace to those who hear it.” (Ephesians 4:29)
“Life is short, and you love your wife, so enjoy being with her.” (Ecclesiastes 9:9)
Our Core Commitment
For this discussion, we commit to creating a safe, loving space focused on mutual understanding. We are here to celebrate our communication strengths, identify our differences in perception, and offer positive support to build new, life-giving habits. We trust God to transform our communication as we look into the mirror of our relationship with grace, clarity, and a shared desire to grow.
Why We Commit
To ensure our spouse feels deeply valued, loved, and heard, while sparking renewed trust and intimacy.
Non-Negotiable Ground Rules
- Timing & Environment: We will not meet if either of us is tired, hungry, or stressed.
- Mindset & Tone: Zero complaints or criticisms. We will use warm, friendly voices and caring words focused on solutions. Our goal is to understand, not to prove who is right.
- Presence: We will eliminate digital distractions, sit side-by-side (not across), maintain eye contact, and keep an open posture.
The Covenant Promise
As you step into your Marriage Mirror discussion, remember this is a time for grace and growth, not defense or blame. Watch as Dr. Art Robertson shares a brief inspirational message and then guides you through the Covenant ceremony.
Step 1: Vow – Share a mutual vow of honor. (Then pause the video when instructed, at 5:03.)
Step 2: Affirmation – Share your prepared compliments. (When finished, resume the video.)
Step 3: Prayer – Join in a closing prayer of blessing.
Click here for a printable copy of the Discussion Covenant to sign (optional, also available on your Resources tab).
Ready to Begin: Once you have completed your Vows, Compliments, and Prayer, check the acknowledgment box below to activate the “Begin Now” button.