Our Speaking Discussion Covenant
GUIDING WISDOM:
“Kind words are like honey – sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.” (Proverbs 16:24)
“A gentle answer will calm a person’s anger, but an unkind answer will cause more anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
“Your speech should always be gracious and sprinkled with insight so that you may know how to respond to every person.” (Colossians 4:6)
Our Core Commitment
For this discussion, we commit to creating a safe, loving space focused on mutual understanding. We are here to celebrate our communication strengths, identify our differences in perception, and offer positive support to build new, life-giving habits. We trust God to transform our communication as we look into the mirror of our relationship with grace, clarity, and a shared desire to grow.
Why We Commit
To ensure our spouse feels deeply valued, loved, and heard, while sparking renewed trust and intimacy.
Non-Negotiable Ground Rules
- Timing & Environment: We will not meet if either of us is tired, hungry, or stressed.
- Mindset & Tone: Zero complaints or criticisms. We will use warm, friendly voices and caring words focused on solutions. Our goal is to understand, not to prove who is right.
- Presence: We will eliminate digital distractions, sit side-by-side (not across), maintain eye contact, and keep an open posture.
The Covenant Promise
As you step into your Marriage Mirror discussion, remember this is a time for grace and growth, not defense or blame. Listen as Dr. Art Robertson shares a brief inspirational message and guides you through the Covenant ceremony.
(Prefer to read? This companion article follows along with the audio message.)
Step 1: Vow – Share a mutual vow of honor. (Pause the audio file after the vows, at 4:25.)
Step 2: Affirmation – Share your prepared compliments. (When finished, resume the audio.)
Step 3: Prayer – Join in a prayer of blessing.
Click here for a printable copy of the Discussion Covenant to sign.
Ready to Begin: Once you have completed your Vows, Compliments, and Prayer, check the acknowledgment box below to activate the “Begin Now” button.