To master the Language of Effective Listening, you must learn to recognize the two primary “modes” of body language in a marriage: The Fortress and The Bridge. 1. The Fortress (Defensive/Reactive) When we feel attacked, we instinctively protect our “vitals.” The Cross: Folding arms across the chest or crossing legs tightly. The Angle: Shifting the […]
The Architecture of Connection vs. Conflict
